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“Happiness is not a matter of intensity … but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.”
Divorce has you spinning in circles, completely off-balance.. You are way outside your comfort zone and you feel completely powerless. And yet, you aren’t. THIS is the space for evolution and growth. THIS is the time to step into your power. THIS is the opportunity to create the life you want and deserve. As a divorce coach and mediator, I give you the knowledge, tools and perspectives to successfully navigate the process of divorce … while also finding your true self and reinventing your life. Let’s use this time to get you unstuck and moving forward without fear. Coaching will give you a strategy for your divorce, but also a springboard for creating the life and career you want. You don’t need to be alone in this process. And you don’t need to reinvent the wheel. The best practices you’ll learn through coaching will help you make better decisions, achieve better outcomes and save big money in legal fees.
I’ve designed several custom programs to help you at any stage of your divorce.
Knowledge is power! Access helpful checklists, worksheets and exercises in my Divorce Toolkit to help you get organized and prepared for divorce. The Divorce Toolkit will help you gain clarity in every stage with my Marriage Assessment through to Dating After Divorce. These tools make it easy for you to understand the legal process and what is needed at every step. And the exercises are designed to help you find clarity before, during and after divorce, so that you can eliminate doubt and confusion and make better decisions. MoxieMembers have unlimited access to the Divorce Toolkit, as well as Expert Podcasts and other resources. View the Divorce Toolkit and Sample Checklists.
Jump start your divorce and your life! VIP Intensives are comprised of a full-day (6 hours) quick start with me to identify your strengths, overcome your blocks and get you moving quickly forward with the knowledge and tools you need to achieve your goals. These Intensives are specifically designed for busy professionals who need to move forward as quickly as possible. VIP Intensives include:
You’re in the driver’s seat … and I’m right there next to you. You choose the direction and speed. And I go as far and as fast at you go. I’m right beside you on this journey … giving you the knowledge and tools you need to move forward with clarity, confidence and courage. My one-on-one coaching programs are designed to support you at any stage … before, during and after divorce. Individual coaching programs include:
You’ve invested a lot in this marriage and you don’t want to end it lightly or damage your family. Fear, doubt and confusion are making it difficult to really know what path to choose. As a divorce coach, I’m not attached to what you choose. I’m here to help you find clarity and then create what you want in your life. I also know where all the pitfalls are in the divorce process. So, if you decide that divorce is the best path, there are ways to move forward with peace, compassion and respect that will reinvent your relationship as co-parents and preserve your family in a new structure. Couples coaching programs include:
Moxie Gets Results!
“I was not sure what to expect from coaching. I wondered if it was going to be worth the investment in terms of both time and money. Working with Laura, I have discovered that this is one of the best investments I have made for myself in a long time. I was surprised how deeply emotional it is. And it is better than therapy or counseling for me because there are requests and accountability that has helped me push through the hard stuff and arrive at the place I wanted to be. I am more connected to my emotions and not always in my head in “thinking mode.” It has helped me move past the things that were holding me back, things I wasn’t even aware of. Laura helped me identify these and guided me to a better place where I am ready for even more success and happiness. I am daring greatly!” — Kristine
“I found my time spent with Laura some of the most useful and productive things I have done for myself. It was a gift to myself to invest in coaching with Laura. My issues and problems didn’t change but yet I found new answers and new approaches to my lifelong struggles. I am certainly not done but enjoy living a more authentic life than I ever have.” — Joann
“I started talking with Laura in the exact moment I needed her. I was in the middle of the process of my separation, and I didn’t know how to handle my feelings and emotions. Laura gave me the tools to search and dig into myself to find the strength and the light I needed in that moment to see things about myself I haven’t seen and to start living with the best that’s inside me. Now I can see that I am living closer to my real me, and leaving behind all that was hurting me and making me feel bad. I thank Laura for being part of this process, and walking by my side in this difficult moment.” — Barbara
“I came to Laura not knowing what to expect. I was miserable in my marriage and I knew I needed something (someone?) to help me finally make a decision about what to do. I came across a blog post of hers and called her the same day. I knew I wasn’t going to be able to get through this process on my own. When you are thinking about divorce, it’s like deciding to leave everything you know and enter into some kind of strange, dark abyss where everything is mysterious—possibly horrifying and possibly glorious, and possibly both. What I came to learn, through Laura, is that my marriage/divorce is only a small part of the puzzle of why I feel stuck, undervalued and prone to listening to critical voices that have been following me for years. Oh my god, I did not know I was going to go there with Laura! I thought we were going to talk about divorce! So far in my time with her, we haven’t much talked about divorce or how much of a jerk my husband is, or my lawyer will be, etcetera. Without wasting even a single moment, Laura systematically helps me uncover (and debunk) all the reasons I’m settling for less than I need, want and deserve. After only a few sessions, Laura has helped me see that I’m like the person clinging to the wave-beaten detritus for fear of drowning when the island paradise is only a few yards away. I just have to let go and swim! One more thing… Laura specializes in divorce but I think anyone dealing with life’s challenges (be it divorce or something else) can benefit from working with her. She is a truly talented and practical coach. She has high expectations of you and I think you will have higher expectations of yourself after even a few sessions.” — Teresa
“Since moving back home at the end of July, I can’t even tell you how great things have been. I never in my wildest dreams would have imagined that our situation could turn around like it has. We are really enjoying spending time together, going on vacation, just COMMUNICATING. It’s really amazing. When people ask me what changed to allow us to reconcile, I have to tell them that we BOTH changed. Wow! People at work have commented on my new-found sense of confidence, and how I handle things differently than in the past. I think I say this every time I reach out to you, but I really can’t thank you enough for guiding me and giving me the tools to turn my life around. I sing the praises of life coaching (and specifically YOU!) often!” — Lisa
“Working with Laura, I saved $18,000 on legal fees and didn’t even know that was possible before.” — Amy
“It’s never too late to make changes and to find the path that is right for you. Life coaching with Laura helped me find places in my life and my thinking where I had become stuck. Her perceptive questions and assignments challenged me to re-examine how I viewed myself, my experiences, and my world. Some discoveries shocked me. The new perspectives I gained through Laura’s coaching have led me to make some amazing changes in my life. Be warned though, participating in life coaching is not for the faint-of-heart—you will have to take a hard look at yourself and recognize what you have been doing that isn’t working for you and then you will need to have a good amount of courage to start doing something different. Life coaching helped me discover facets of myself that I didn’t even knew existed. I am now venturing into new things that reflect the passions and life purpose that had been buried inside me all these years and were only able to be uncovered, recognized, and appreciated through the insights gained from Laura’s coaching.” — Merrilee
“Talking to you in our consultation really gave me the validation that it was OK to feel the way that I did about getting a divorce. And you also showed me a strength that I didn’t realize I had. Thank you again for reminding me of the empowerment I have inside. You are truly a blessing to me.” — Omeshia
“I lived in a state of confusion for years. A few sessions with Laura & my world starting seeing clarity. You owe it to yourself to be coached; no reason to go through it alone.” — Liz
“Coaching with Laura was meant to be! I had never even heard of a coach. I had met Laura at a workshop, chatted a bit and when I took her business card I made sure I put it in my wallet so I would not lose it. That phone call was the best way to start 2014 which I vowed would be my year to get this divorce done. I had been separated for a few years and living in limbo. I was “stuck” in my life about how to handle my divorce and my life. I put off all the major decisions, living like a robot with the day to day routines; procrastination was my middle name. The tools Laura has taught me work and I am using them. My captain & crew are inside me now and it feels good to “talk” and “listen” to them. I sure do make them work hard. I have learned things about myself that have been dormant for years. I am excited about my new adventure in life! The word “Moxie” is awesome!” — Pat