Into Powerful Relationship
Gain Clarity, Resolve Conflict, Break Old Patterns, Claim Love
Deep in your heart, you know things aren't quite right in your relationship. The investment you've made is too great now to easily walk away ... and your self-doubt makes it difficult to truly KNOW the best next step.
Most people don't realize that great relationships are based on shared values, common goals and clear communication. And that starts with YOU. Most people don't even know what their core values are, let alone their partner's. And if your values, recognized or not, aren't being honored and respected, then your relationships, your life, won't feel good. And you won't feel good about yourself. It's important to recognize that people, their values and goals, change over time and that can send you down a different path than your partner.
You might think you are on the same page, but if you were then why is there conflict between you? You need to understand what's going on with YOU first, to then know what you are bringing into the relationship. And you need to be speaking the same relationship language to be fully understood.
As your coach, I work with you individually, or as a couple, to identify self-limiting beliefs and behavioral patterns that are sabotaging your relationship and your relationship goals in these key areas:
- Marriage Preparation ... what you can do to create a stronger marriage from the very beginning
- Marriage Rescue ... can this marriage be saved or is divorce the best answer?
- Divorce ... what you can do to divorce with mutual respect and minimize negative impact on your family
- Co-Parenting ... divorce doesn't damage kids, parental conflict does. Using my experience as a certified Parentology Coach and Mediator, I empower you in learning how to be better co-parents during and after divorce.
Coaching provides a safe, confidential space to explore who you really are, what is most important to you and what you want in your life. Coaching identifies your self-limiting beliefs and silences your inner critics, that negative self-talk that keeps you paralyzed with fear or always reacting from hurt and resentment. Coaching gives you clarity to make better decisions for yourself now and in the future ... because the choices you make today create the future you want tomorrow. And it gives you the courage and strength to recreate your life the way YOU want it to be. Through coaching, I put you in the driver’s seat. I’m right there next to you, but YOU choose the direction and speed. And I go as far and as fast as you go. I’m right beside you on this journey … giving you the knowledge, tools and support to move forward with clarity, confidence and courage. Coaching minimizes your fear, empowers you and unleashes YOUR VOICE in this process, your relationships and in your life.
Coaching sessions are 60 minutes each and are conducted over the phone or Zoom. And coaching with me is flexible and risk-free. There isn’t a commitment to a certain number of sessions and you aren’t confined within a structured program. You choose how many sessions you want in a month … from 2 or 4 … and work with me on a month to month basis. My standard rate is $350/session and is pre-paid on a monthly basis. When we have achieved your goals, you are free to cancel our agreement with one months’ notice. Again, you’re in the driver’s seat!
It is important to make the distinction that coaching is not therapy. Coaching is focused on the present to create the future you want. There is no judgement, opinions or advice in this confidential relationship. As my client, you choose your own path and goals for coaching. We create the road map together and use requests (mini-action plans), inquiries and accountability to help you get there. I'm a champion in your corner creating clarity around what you want, inspiration to silence your inner critics, strength to eliminate self-sabotage and courage to move forward with a tangible action plan.